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Good nuggets from a well written post
You’ll always find yourself in situations where you’re never “paid back” for what you give. But even in those cases, I find a surprising result – there’s usually a positive payback, but it’s really indirect.
I can associate very well to this, as in my current NGPA project, I am not well rewarded with respect to money. However, I go beyond my specified duties and make/made sure people using it had no blocking issues / concerns and that earned me a very nice name and trust in the organization.
So, if you can help someone out without disadvantaging yourself, do it. That means sharing ideas, making connections, and doing little tasks that don’t eat up tons of your time and energy. Don’t worry about the return – if you do it often enough and with enough quality and value, the return will take care of itself.
More than anything in return it makes you a better person. Relevant comment …
I believe, aside from the paybacks, that habitually helping other people helps you by making you a better person. When you help others you become more patient, generous and selfless. When you only look out for yourself you tend to become narcissistic. People who are completely focused on themselves tend to self-destruct, sooner or later.
Good one:
Lloyd Blankfein: Empower a subordinate
Age: 54
Chairman and CEO, Goldman SachsWhen I was put in charge of sales and trading at Goldman’s commodities unit [in 1984], it was a big deal for me. My first month on the job, things started going badly in the P&L. When I went in to my boss for help, he asked, "What do you think we should do here?" I wanted to sound totally in control, so I went right into this Chuck Yeager voice — you know, The Right Stuff. I used my most fake-confident voice, and I gave it my best shot. He said, "Okay, that’s a good idea." It was smart of him to ask my opinion instead of telling me what to do. He knew that if my plan worked, I’d feel more confident. If it didn’t work, the pressure on me would ease because he had endorsed my idea. Just as I was walking out of his office, he said, "Oh, just one more thing. Why don’t you walk to the men’s room and throw cold water on your face? You’re looking green." So I learned two things: First, it’s good to solicit your people’s opinions before you give them yours. And second, your people will be very influenced by how you carry yourself under stress.
Software Development has turned from an art into a process, that pretty much all companies [claim to] follow (in their own way) to yield into an effective profit margin to run their software business. Whatever name they give to it, agile, scrum, paired programming or whatever, end of the day we are trying to make sure that we get few more CPU cycles for the resource and that the cycles are focused on the right effort.
Basic rule to this is that everyone likes to be respected. Everyone have self esteem. I deeply believe management should take time and effort in genuinely respecting a employee. Anyone who does or feel as have done, a good job expect a raise. Management may or may not be able to provide that raise. Fixing a problem, by raising one’s salary is not a solution. Everyone needs a hike and eventually everyone will ask for it. Management will not be able to keep on doing the salary hike,. because the company won’t be having enough money at some point. So the true solution is “Keeping the employees engaged in what they do best”. Why I stress that is, behind that one line, there are many roles. One has to know a person well enough to make sure he/she can keep him/her engaged, taking the monetary portion out of the equation. One has to know the employee, spend time, understand their need, know what truly motivates them. Find them and direct your energy towards that, I assure you that you will thank yourself for doing so. Now that’s the long term fix that a management should focus on.
I am pissed off, when people boasts that they are a good manager or in other words try not to be bad managers, by trying to be nice to the team (in mere words). In my opinion there is no good managers or bad managers. When you take your car to a mechanic, do you care if the mechanic is good to you or bad. All you care if the mechanic fix (or service) your car correctly. Similarly a manager should be a fixer for the project. “Fixer” from managing the project point of view (from technical point of view, that’s team leads role). He should fix the blocking issues in a project through his assigned crew. He should do whatever it takes to get it done.
Good manager is one who has control (mind you, I don’t mean micromanaging) on the project and could have his/her team in focus and accomplish the task as planed. He/She should be able to have his team members accountable to what they are doing (bad or good) or assigned. From my experience, any managers who were able to keep his team engaged (in the right planned directions) and accountable, will be very successful and those I call good managers.
I read this in the Time magazine’s article. I found it very interesting. Though I am not very sure of the tests and its conclusion, I agree with the conclusion (highlighted for convenience). What’s your take on this.
Bosses may be an overbearing breed, but more often than not, you’ve got to admire their business chops. Wouldn’t you love to have that same sense of competence and confidence, that ability to assess tough problems and reach smart solutions on the fly? Guess what? So would they. If you have ever suspected that your boss isn’t actually good enough at what he or she does to deserve the job in the first place, a new study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology suggests that you might be right.
Social psychologists know that one way to be viewed as a leader in any group is simply to act like one. Speak up, speak well and offer lots of ideas, and before long, people will begin doing what you say. This works well when leaders know what they’re talking about, but what if they don’t? If someone acts like a boss but thinks like a boob, is that still enough to stay on top? (See the best business deals of 2008.)
To determine just how easily an all-hat-no-cattle leader can take control of employees, researchers at the University of California, Berkeley, devised a pair of tests. Cameron Anderson, an associate professor of organizational behavior and industrial relations, along with doctoral candidate Gavin Kilduff, recruited a group of 68 graduate students and divided them into four-person teams. To eliminate the wild card of gender, the teams were either all-male or all-female. Each group was given the task of organizing an imaginary nonprofit environmental organization; the group that did best — as determined by the researchers — would win a $400 prize. While the prize was real, the purported goal wasn’t. What Anderson and Kilduff really wanted to see was how the alpha group members would emerge. (Read "How to Know When the Economy Is Turning Up.")
After the teams performed their work for a fixed amount of time, the members of each group rated one another on both their level of influence on the group and, more important, their level of competence. The work sessions were videotaped, and a group of independent observers performed the same evaluations, as did Anderson and Kilduff. All three sets of judges reached the same conclusions. Consistently, the group members who spoke up the most were rated the highest for such qualities as "general intelligence" and "dependable and self-disciplined." The ones who didn’t speak as much tended to score higher for less desirable traits, including "conventional and uncreative."
"More-dominant individuals achieved influence in their groups in part because they were seen as more competent by fellow group members," Anderson and Kilduff write. (See pictures of Steve Jobs on the job.)
But so what? Maybe they were more competent. Isn’t it possible that people who talk more do so because they simply have more to contribute? To test that, Anderson and Kilduff ran a second study with a new team of volunteers in which the skill being tested was a lot more quantifiable than forming a nonprofit green group. This time it was math. (See entrepreneurs breaking ground in global business.)
Once again, the volunteers were divided into fours in competition for a $400 prize, but now their assigned task was to work as teams to solve computational problems from previous versions of the Graduate Management Aptitude Test (GMAT). Before the work began, the participants informed the researchers — but not their team members — of their real-world scores on the math portion of the SAT. When the work was finished, the people who spoke up more were again likelier to be described by peers as leaders and likelier to be rated as math whizzes. What’s more, any speaking up at all seemed to do. Participants earned recognition for being the first to call out an answer, but also for being the second or third — even if all they did was agree with what someone else had said. Merely providing some scrap of information relevant to solving the problem counted too, as long as they did so often enough and confidently enough. (See TIME’s photo-essay "All Cubed In.")
When Anderson and Kilduff checked the participants’ work, however, a lot of pretenders were exposed. Repeatedly, the ones who emerged as leaders and were rated the highest in competence were not the ones who offered the greatest number of correct answers. Nor were they the ones whose SAT scores suggested they’d even be able to. What they did do was offer the most answers — period.
"Dominant individuals behaved in ways that made them appear competent," the researchers write, "above and beyond their actual competence." Troublingly, group members seemed only too willing to follow these underqualified bosses. An overwhelming 94% of the time, the teams used the first answer anyone shouted out — often giving only perfunctory consideration to others that were offered.
None of this comes as much of a shock — at least if you’ve been watching the news. You don’t have to be a former homeowner burned by the housing fiasco or a blue-state voter screaming "I told you so" to agree that the way we pick our leaders is often based on something other than merit. That’s not entirely bad, since no matter how competent bosses are, they still have to have the charisma and confidence to persuade people to follow them. Whether they’re leading from the Oval Office or the corner office, it’s up to the rest of us to watch them closely and make sure they know what they’re doing and where they’re going.
Brazen Careerist says how to lead. I found it soo true, from my experience. What’s your comment
Generation Y has a lot of great traits, but classic, top-down leadership is not one of them. This is not a surprise: Because gen Y is the great teamwork generation. They did book reports in teams, they went to prom in teams, and they are notorious for quitting jobs in teams.
I think effective leadership in today’s workplace is about teamwork and following, not about standing out.
Here are five traits of leadership in the new millennium — traits I try to practice myself:
1. Make yourself a source of information
The key trait in a leader is the bravery to put forth an opinion and maybe be wrong. Jeffrey Kluger, writing in Time magazine, reports research that we value leaders not because they are smarter or right more often, but merely because they speak up. We want to be lead by people who take a shot at the answer – right or wrong. So if you want to be perceived as a leader, speak up. Often.
This means you need opinions. Today news is commodified, which means (newspapers are dying and) the real information we can offer is a layer of opinion and synthesis on top of the news. So you need to take a risk and put out some opinions that matter in order to be seen as leading people. Your peers, rather than some special gatekeeper will determine if the opinions are right or wrong.
2. Expect your ideas to resonate due to merit not rank
Gary Hamel has a great post on his Wall St. Journal blog about the impact of Web 2.0 on the workplace. The first thing he points out is that in the Web 2.0 world, all ideas are on equal footing. Which is to say that your rank doesn’t matter as much as what you put forward.
He writes: “When you post a video to YouTube, no one asks you if you went to film school. When you write a blog, no one cares whether you have a journalism degree. Position, title, and academic degrees—none of the usual status differentiators carry much weight online. On the Web, what counts is not your resume, but what you can contribute.”
3. Get good at following
I’ve been thinking a lot about Barbara Kellerman’s book, Followership: How Followers are Creating Change and Changing Leaders. Kellerman argues that in order to learn how to be a good leader, you need to also understand the art of good following. Her research shows that the best followers have historically paid more attention to their peers than those holding rank above them. So it makes sense that leaders in the new millennium will look to their peers to elevate them rather than doing it by climbing up some external ranking system.
4. Get good at selling from the inside out
You cannot force an idea down peoples’ throats. That top-down sort of leadership disappeared when the corporate ladder disappeared. This means that leadership is all about sales: selling a vision, and a common goal, and making meaningful connections. Leaders do this to convince people to keep going even though there is no promise of a safe future.
Today leaders sell by being part of the team. A great example of this is cheerleaders. Cheerleaders are infamous for being amazing salespeople and part of that is that they know how to work as part of a team instead of barking orders and insisting on being the leader.
5. Be authentic in situations where authenticity is most difficult
Authenticity is the new way of selling –rather than using the force of BS. And the leaders of the new millennium are judged by their ability to convey their true selves. Tony Hsieh, the CEO for Zappos is renowned for maintaining a popular Twitter feed that rings as authentic and fun. Mark Zuckerberg gets into the most trouble when his interviews seem stiff to the point of inauthentic.
One of the best ways develop your own leadership potential is through public speaking training. The best type of training for speakers isn’t to memorize speeches and make rote eye contact, but rather to learn to be your true self in front of people. First you learn to do it in front of a few people – no small feat – and then you learn to do it in front of a lot of people. (I learned this at TAI Resources.)
Of course, you may discover that you are not really a leader. But the best thing about deciding to become a leader is that you learn what your strengths are and what your weaknesses are. And in the new millennium, the distinction between leader and follower is so fluid that the distinction between your strengths and weaknesses is probably more important, anyway.
I happen to read this useful article on networking at CNN
AT EVENTS: WORK THE ROOM
Scout out the scene. A big room full of strangers can be intimidating, whether it’s the cocktail mixer at an industry conference, a corporate retreat, or a networking event. Ease the stress by finding out who the attendees are ahead of time. Ask the organizer to e-mail you the RSVP list or check the registration when you arrive. You can warm up your chatter by finding someone you already know – just make sure you move on and mingle before too long.
Bring a wingman. If you can, invite a colleague along. Ideally, you want someone more outgoing than you who will push you to meet people and maybe talk you up just a bit, says Peter Handal, CEO of Dale Carnegie & Associates, which provides corporate leadership training.
Be unfashionably early. Wouldn’t you rather walk into a room of five people than into one with 50? Get there at the beginning so that you can start a conversation rather than awkwardly join one in progress, says Wendy Gelberg, author of "The Successful Introvert." Arrive early enough and you have a built-in conversation starter: "So, um, I guess we’re the first ones here …" Not exactly the stuff of the Algonquin Round Table, but it’ll do in a pinch.
ONE-ON-ONE: BOND, DON’T BEG
Keep in touch in the good times. Don’t be the one who calls only to unload about how work stinks or how crummy the job market is. The technical term for such a person is "a drag." Get out there when you aren’t searching for a new gig, and it will be easier to get your call returned when you are.
Schedule a lunch. Yep, that meal with your former co-worker counts, even if it was just fun. (Especially if it was fun.) Even if you talked more about your wretched ex-boss than your career. Networking is not a constant series of mini-interviews. It’s a gradual process of building trust with people (maybe not that ex-boss) as well as just letting them know what you are up to these days. Aim for one lunch a week.
Zip it for a minute. Again, you’re building relationships, not interviewing. Ask questions to get your lunch date talking about herself. Who doesn’t like that?
Give now, get later. Networking sounds slimy because we think of it as asking for something. But it’s really a two-way street. Help someone else, and he’ll owe you (or at least think of you) later on. "Very few of us are walking around with jobs in our pockets, but we all have contacts and information we can share," says Gelberg.
ONLINE: KEEP YOUR FRIENDS CLOSE
Build a casual network. Sign on, if you haven’t, to a social-networking service like LinkedIn, Twitter, or Facebook. "Because interactions aren’t in real time, there’s much less pressure," says Gelberg. The services allow you to be in touch with people without the formalities and hi-how-are-you of an e-mail. And it’s often your more casual contacts who point you to the next job. Just don’t abuse the technology and annoy people. Only "friend" people you’ve met, and remind them of the connection if it’s been a while. A solid network of 50 is better than 1,000 acquaintances.
Get introduced. Know someone who knows someone who could be useful in your career? Ask the mutual friend to make an introduction via a social-networking site. Or search under the "People" tab on LinkedIn to see whether someone in your circle can make a connection to a specific person or company.
Give updates. Toot your horn a bit (it’s easier online, we promise) by regularly adding to your social-networking profile, updating your "status," or even just sending out an e-mail blast. Let people know, for example, if you’re speaking on a panel or attending a conference.
Penelope quotes leadership as
Leadership is all about sales: selling a vision, and a common goal, and making meaningful connections. Leaders do this to convince people to keep going even though there is no promise of a safe future.
However big the organization is, its very easy to bring it to its feet, if the workers decided to…
Its very hard for the management to identify in the initial stage and kill such an attempt. By the time management takes effort, the damage would have been done. So its highly necessary that every developer stick to0 their role and do what they are asked to do rather than spreading the FUD.
F- Fear (eg: I doubt if what we are developing is of real value)
U – Uncertainty (eg: I don’t think this is what the customer want, or say you no way belong to a project but commenting about that project having missed a milestone near the water-cooler)
D – Doubt (eg: Would we even have customer for this product that we are developing)
The truth is, at the level of individual developers, its not even possible to know the big picture that several level of management above has (mind you, not the immediate management above you, ion my view they are overheads) or see from customer point of view. So its better to spread FUD and collapse the entire system. You either trust the management and work diligently for that company or quit and find that one that you love, rather than commenting about management’s decision.
No loose communication. A fellow blogger says so …
The bar is set high. Words are the building blocks of a complete communication and every word has a precise and particular meaning of its own.
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Respect the word and use words purposefully and sparingly in your communications. Certain words can evoke strong negative emotions, defensiveness or self-doubt. Others can get the very same message across in a non threatening way or bring a positive light to a less than positive situation.
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And I am not talking about using word to spin a message. I am talking about using words for authentic and conscious communication. I dislike loose communication. Loose communication can leave questions unanswered, omit pertinent information, misinterpret facts or assume connections between facts that do not exist. Loose communication can be flat out inaccurate. Loose communication can leave those on the receiving end with more questions than they come into the conversation with, riled up, or extremely frustrated. Loose communications always reflects poorly on the communicators and often on the group, team, or project the communicator is representing.
Communicators, think before you speak. What is the purpose of the communication? Is it a call to action, to discuss an issue for added insight, or to build a relationship? What message do you want to deliver and how do you want it to be received? What words will you use? What do you anticipate the listener’s concerns will be? How will you address them? Do you have your facts together? Do your facts support your conclusion?
Communicators, be prepared to listen. Listen more than you speak and listen for understanding. Watch for verbal clues to determine the receiver, your partner in the conversation, is ready to switch topics, has something to say, or is ready to conclude.
So please use the words sparingly, correctly and effective. Don’t spread the FUD.
Most often developers have three quests in their mind. These three thirsts need to be quenched for the developer to feel happy, secured and eventually contribute maximum in their job
1. Anonymity:
Developer’s always feel that they are anonymous and that if anyone would even know what they are working on. If that’s of importance. If their work will be known to upper management. So management should take efforts to convey whats has surfaced to their level.
2. Making a Difference:
Developer’s feel if they are doing something of importance for anyone? If what they do will be put into real use? Are they contributing towards anyone’s success?. So, Management should take efforts to convey, whats the goal and importance for the organization and be assured its reached correctly (by reiterating the goal as and when its appropriate). Also Management should associate the work of the developers (the corresponding project) and put them in place and show how those project will help the organization achieve its goal and thereby succeed.
3. Measurement:
End of the day the effort should reflect in well being. How much and how well should be measured as close as possible (without much of an overhead) and appropriately rewarded.